how do i set up TWlight menu++ on ds lite

so i have a working r4 card that loads roms and other stuff but im trying to make it work with the nsmb coop mod and it says cannot erase data and it works with twlight menu++ on my 2ds.
SO im trying to get TWlite menu on my r4 card but i have put multiple versions of twlight on my card and they all say   Couldn't find_DS_MENU.DAT
so i copyed the ds_menu.dat from the original r4 card and it just has a black top screen and white bottom screen i am not sure what type of r4 card it is but this is what its sold as: click here
i cant see what type of card it is as it has no bar code or numbers other than it saying:482G01 on the label there is also a sticker that is unreadable on the back over the sd card slot but its ripped. i have backed up the original r4 card firmwear. also it shows up in the console as

SpongeBob's Atlantis Squarepantis THQ

is there anyone who knows how to set up twlight menu++ on R4?

Sorry can't help, I only know how to setup on 3ds 💀

I feel like the people who know how to hack the og ds are going extinct...

...everyone had R4

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I'll say try looking at this